Learn to be OK with NOT being OK

So there's this woman.  She is awesome.  Inspiring.  She's got a defined waist, hair that always looks styled even when it's not.  She's into Pilates and kale juice, she rocks her Lululemon outfits, even after three angelic children.  I hear many women (or similar story with the men too) talk like this, wanting to be like 'this woman'.  

The "Pause Button"

I think it’s normal — even commendable — to want to do your best. To consider taking time to regroup and then resume (or start again) when life feels easier.

At the same time, this completely natural and well-meaning impulse is one of the fastest, surest, most reliable ways to sabotage yourself.

Here’s why — and what to do instead.